I have my own scars and medical issues and the relentless pressure to be physically perfect is hurting many of us. But yes, there are certain things I am having a hard time getting past. I don’t want or need perfect anything but do want to be attracted enough to my wife to the point of https://datingranking.org/ looking forward to kissing and hugging her each day, and I can’t apologize for wanting that. Growing old together is not a problem, but starting out feeling very mismatched is. I really feel this is too negative. As a 55 year old woman, it doesn’t correspond with my experience at all.
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He is a physical miracle snd unbelievable stamina. So don’t assume they all need a pill at that age. An older man more than likely has a past that involves at least one major relationship. If he has kids, his ex may still be in his life.
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I don’t want to be alone either, but I am worn out from trying to form a relationship with a nice man when I meet him. These are not young men…..mid 40’s to mid 50’s. These men tell me how great I am…..special, one in seven million….yada yada yada…..
You accommodate my needs with caring and consideration and I accommodate yours. Well I am venturing out finally by starting university at night school, hopefully to meet women of my age group and trying to find a local mixed golf league. Well I am a widower of just over 15 months and age 57. I have yet to go on a date as I have not felt comfortable with the prospects of getting out there in the marketplace so to speak. I have set my age appropriate limits of 52 – 62.
Mmm i don’t mind male friends but I’d like to find a man who is interested in sex. If he can’t work it one way I’d hope he would be able to do it another way. I’m pretty white bread when it comes to sexual practices but my assumption there is a lot to work within the non alternative sex path. I don’t share with no one and I would prefer a partner who is liked minded.
Beauty is from the inside and shines on the outside. The should take responsibility and stay alone if not able to satisfy. There is such a thing as professional sex workers and ‘self-service’, which men seem to scoff at.
Women who make themselves approachable by smiling and appearing to have a friendly and enthusiastic personality are much more attractive to older men. Try to “dress-up” a little when going on a first date, but make sure that you are comfortable in your outfit and footwear. Wear something that portrays your personality and style.
That doesn’t mean he has to be rich. I’ve been in love with several men who were not loaded with money. That didn’t matter to me because I judge by what is inside a man, not by what he owns.
Where are all the guys like you??? You are exactly what I am looking for…..down to earth, sensible, respectful, and looking to have something special with someone. I’m being kind because you stand apart from most of the guys I’ve seen and heard about.
In fact, I recall reading a large study where many women who initiated a divorce at age 50 or shortly thereafter stated that there was nothing really wrong with their ex-husbands. They admitted they were good, sturdy men. The women simply fell out of love and no longer wanted to be married to that man, or any man for that matter.
